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简单快乐!^_^——不善君子,不恶小人! April 13 感动的十句话 第一句、如果我们之间有100步的距离,你只要跨出第1步,我就会朝你的方走其余的99步。
第二句、通常愿意留下来跟你争吵的人才是真正爱你的人。
第三句、付出真心才会得到真心,却也可能伤的彻底;保持距离就能保护自己,却也永远注定寂寞。
第四句、有时候不是对方不在乎你。而是你把对方看得太重。
第五句、朋友就是把你看透了还能喜欢你的人。
第六句、就算是believe中间也藏了一个lie。
第七句、真正的朋友并不是在一起就有聊不完的话题,而是在一起就算不说话也不会感到尴尬。
第八句、没有一百分的另一半,只有五十分的两个人。
第九句、为你的难过而快乐的是敌人;为你的快乐而快乐的是朋友;为你的难过而难过的就是那些该放进心里的人。
第十句、冷漠 有时候并不是无情 只是一种避免被伤害的工具。 February 10 转:每一句都是一语中地~ 狠1、一个人炫耀什么,说明内心缺少什么。 2、一个人越在意的地方,就是最令他自卑的地方。 3、人都有以第一印象定好坏的习惯,认为一个人好时,就会爱屋及乌,认为一个人不好时,就会全盘否认。 4、人越是得意的事情,越爱隐藏,越是痛苦的事情越爱小题大作。 5、这个世界既不是有钱人的世界,也不是有权人的世界,它是有心人的世界。 6、婚姻的杀手有时不是外遇,而是时间。 8、学习要加,骄傲要减,机会要乘,懒惰要除。 9、童年的无知可爱,少年的无知可笑;青年的无知可怜;中年的无知可叹,老年的无知可悲。 10、人允许一个陌生人的发迹,却不能容忍一个身边人的晋升。因为同一层次的人之间存在着对比、利益的冲突,而与陌生人不存在这方面的问题。 11、一个女人喜欢一个男人时,她希望听到谎言;当一个女人厌恶一个男人时,她希望听到真理。 12、如果你借太多的钱给一个人,你会令此人变成坏人。 13、现代的婚姻是情感的产物,更是竞争的结晶。 14、敌人变成战友多半是为了生存,战友变成敌人多半是为了金钱。 15、有所得是低级快乐,无所求是高级快乐。 16、天才失败了就是蠢才! 17、世界上1%的人是吃小亏而占大便宜,而99%的人是占小便宜吃大亏。大多数成功人士都源于那1%。 18、人如果靠吃饭活着,那饭不叫饭,叫饲料。 19、中国人学美国人容易,中国人学中国人难。 20、一个人幸运的前提,其实是他有能力改变自己。 21、人的成长要接受四个方面的教育:父母、老师、书籍,社会。有趣的是,后者似乎总是与前面三种背道而驰。 22、经营自己的长处,能使你人生增值;经营你的短处,能使你人生贬值。 23、生命犹如一片绿叶,随着时间的流逝,慢慢变的枯黄,但他的叶脉还是那么清晰可见。 24、把事情变复杂很简单,把事情变简单很复杂。 25、如果是棵小草,即使在最好的企业里,你也长不成大树。果真如此,不如历经风雨,把自己培养成名贵花卉。 26、二十一世纪工作生存法则就是:建立个人品牌,把你的名字变成钱。 27、怕爹是孝顺,怕老婆是爱情。 28、没有不合格的学生,只有不合格的家长。 29、地球是运动的,一个人不会永远处在倒霉的位置。 30、我们可以躲开大家,却躲不开一只苍蝇。生活中使我们不快乐的常是一些芝麻小事。 31、有一种人只做两件事:你成功了,他妒嫉你;你失败了,他笑话你。 32、笨男人+笨女人=结婚;笨男人+聪明女人=离婚;聪明男人+笨女人=婚外情;聪明男人+聪明女人=浪漫爱情。 33、任何一个傻瓜都会引诱一个姑娘;但是知道怎样离开她只有成熟男人才能做到。 34、人有两只眼睛,全是平行的,所以应当平等看人;人的两只耳朵是分在两边的,所以不可偏听一面之词;人虽只有一颗心,然而有左右两个心房,所以做事不但要为自己想,也要为别人想。 35、企业一定要有偷不去、买不来、拆不开、带不走,溜不掉的独特资源。 36、失言就是一不小心说了实话。 37、真诚并不意味着要指责别人的缺点,但意味着一定不恭维别人的缺点。 38、人的本性就是贪婪,但没有贪婪社会就不会进步。 39、恋爱是想一个人的心,婚姻是拴一个人的心,爱情是吞一个人的心。 40、最好的进攻就是进攻自己。 41、人生的意义不在于拿一手好牌,而在于打好一手坏牌。 42、成功是一种观念,致富是一种义务,快乐是一种权利。 43、竞争,其实就是一种友谊,在对手的帮助下提高你的聪明度,害怕竞争的人已经输给了对手。 44、钱可以帮穷人解决问题,却帮富人制造问题。 45、把爱情投资在一个人身上,冒险;把爱情投资在许多人身上,危险。 46、世界上只有想不通的人,没有走不通的路。 47、真正的财富是一种思维方式,而不是一个月收入数字。 48、一个人想平庸,阻拦者很少;一个人想出众,阻拦者很多。不少平庸者与周围人关系融洽,不少出众者与周围人关系紧张。 49、婚后的男女莫不“喜出”“望外”。 50、三流的化妆是脸上的化妆;二流的化妆是精神的化妆;一流的化妆是生命的化妆。 51、“危机”两个字,一个意味着危险,另外一个意味着机会,不要放弃任何一次努力。 52、是英雄表现出来,是人才体现出来,是蠢才显现出来。 53、“总”要为爱人着想,“经”得起爱人唠叨,“理”应对爱人谦让,男人应当“总经理”。 54、三人行,必有我师, 三剑客,必有一强, 三角恋,必有一伤。 January 16 看看你英文名字的意义 原来看似不经意中取得英文名字,还有很多含义呢,对照看看你的是什么?
以下是每个字母的含义,看看准吗?
A)当正思考的时候,你会变得非常沉默。
B)遇上新相识的朋友你永远都额外谨慎。 C)你有一棵野性的心,别害羞将它表露出来。 D)你很难相信别人,信任两个字对你来说,有点重。 E)你是一个勇敢面对挑战的人。 F)你身边的人都满喜欢你,一定不乏追求者。 G)你观人於微,经常看破别人的心,知道他们的想法。 H)你判断力不足,对事情敌分析能力似乎有需要改善。 I)你的脾气颇大,EQ指数比较低,有时会控制不住情绪。 J)妒忌心重,占有慾亦然。 K)勇於尝试新事物新环境新挑战。 L)爱情对你来说太复杂了,你想要的只是简简单单的爱。 M)成功对你来说不是一件困难的事。做事经常事半功倍。 N)你是热爱工作的大忙人,却永远渴望有个能放松的假期。 O)你的思想属於开明的一类,对不同的意见你也会重视思考。 P)为人有点自私,重点经常是自己,对於其他人的需要,你则很少照顾到。 Q)为人圆滑,社交手腕不俗。 R)Social方面系你强项,所以人缘亦算不俗。 S)思想比较古老,不太肯尝试新东西。 T)你对人处事的态度有问题,所以唔知咩事得罪人。 U)你很渴望全世的道得德都能达到平衡。 V)你平时说话很多,不过所谓祸从口出,所以都有一些讨厌你的人。 W)你的私隐对你非常重要,你亦颇享受一个人的时候。 X)你永远不愿别人告诉你应该做些甚麽。 Y)麻烦友一名,跳跳紮紮经常得罪人。 Z)你喜欢跟别人辩论、争拗,而且好胜心强。 December 23 ZT:101条绝美感人语句Hope and trust is the tail of a lizard, which can reproduce even after being cut off.
To lose in something you love is better than to win in something you hate. One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone. Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love. Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off, you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last. I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you. Love makes man grow up or sink down. If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down, it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love. Most of people are looking forward the crystal-like love—pure without any defect. However the truth is most people are having the glass-like love-same transparent but easily broken. We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone. One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love. During the whole life, you will regret for two things: one is that you don’t get the one you love and the other is the one you love is not happy. To live in a world without you is more painful than any punishment. Do you know that no one can replace you in my heart? Your birth gives me hope and I hope to give you happiness. I hide my storm-like love in my heart just not to give you any pressure. The more precious my love is, the more I cherish the love from others. If you love a girl, it's better to fight for her happiness than to abandon her for the sake of her happiness. The more you want to know whether you have forgotten something, the better you remember; I once heard that, the only thing you can do when you no longer have something is not to forget. To love someone in secret is like a seed in bottle waiting for growing up, though not sure whether the future will be more beautiful, still waiting it earnestly and eagerly. The reason why girls consider flowers as the most valuable gift among other gifts is that men have to overcome the shyness of holding the flowers in streets before sending them to girls. I am alive only when I am with you. When I am alone, the most dazzling sun seems to have lost the brilliance. I never let you not to know my existence, but I just never thought that love will fall upon on my head. Sometimes, I just wonder, we are from different waters, although I admire your world, I will be drowned if I get close to you. When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. How it feels when you are loved by the one you love? How could it be like? If you want to answer it immediately, you shall know how happy you are. Although you insist loving on your own is also called love, one palm can not make noises.
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind. What's the accomplishment of love? If marriage is the accomplishment, how about divorce? When I begin to love someone, it is the accomplishment of love. People are used to born in the stars. They just temporarily live in the star which is called the earth. Therefore, everyone has a star-like heart. The life is limited, but they still shine with their smiles and love. The love world is big, which can hold hundreds of disappointments; the love world is small which is crowded even with three people inside. The love world is big, it still has space for more happiness; the love world is small which will be ruined after one tread. Why to ask so much when you are in love? If you ask too much, maybe you no longer love. The mature never ask the past, the wise never ask the present and the open-minded never ask the future. Do you think that the sourest feeling is to be jealous? No, the sourest thing is that you have no rights to be jealous. That's the sourest thing. When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we r pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different. When two people are in love, they are eager to have more sweet kisses. But why they are in quarrel, they are hurting each other by the mouths that once used for kissing? Every time when I was upset or tired, I can only kiss by myself. Love is not about running into each other in crowds. Love is an impossible meeting. For example, I am a bird flying in sky, you r a leopard in forest. We just fall in love accidentally. The one you love also loves you. This is a miracle. And the god names this as falling in love with each other. The life is not always full of multiple choices or the yes-or-no questions, but application questions which need us to prove little by little. During the process, we need to make choice to get or lose. It matters not even if we get wrong answers. When you feel hurt and your tears are gonna to drop. Please look up and have a look at the sky once belongs to us. If the sky is still vast, clouds are still clear, you shall not cry because my leave doesn't take away the world that belongs to you. The heart of woman is a glass holding water. It is full but seems to have nothing inside. We always ask for man to innocent as child, but able as father. If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain. It's not because of stability that someone wants to marry, but because of lack of stability. Loneliness is different from being alone. Being alone means you just have no one beside you but loneliness means that you can not talk with others and share them with your feelings. And the true loneliness is that you even forget how it feels when you love someone. It’s not easy to change friendship into love. But it's even harder to turn love into friendship. If I swallow my heart, whether I can regain the friendship once I had. If it blossoms, I will love; if not, give up. I just accompany you merrily for the sake of scenery not for you. Never get a lover that no one can replace, otherwise you will be easily replaced. The freedom between lovers is like an overdue check that you can own it forever but can not turn it in cash. I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this. When we grow up with happiness and sorrows, a story is coming out. We find that we never abide by any promise, but we really loved each other at one time. I comfort myself like this: although I am in the lowest place, seeing now flowers blossoming, I can always witness the romance when the petals fall down and fly in the wind. All the love stories have something in common. Once upon a time, I have that experience too. but I can not remember it clearly. All I can remember is that love returns with another man bringing new hopes to me. Once I have the chance to witness his worst moment, but you still can accept his defects and keep this as secret. Then your love will last longer. I believe in the fairy story you wrote for me, and myself becomes the faint flower in the story. The key for happiness is not to find a perfect person, but find someone and build a perfect relationship with him. Among those people that appear in our life, some are to teach us, some to comfort us, some to share and some to love. It’s better to try hard to love yourself more than to wait someone to love u. if today you don't like yourself more than yesterday, so what's the meaning of tomorrow? You can make fortune by ways that you don't like, and can get cured by medicine that you don't believe, but you can never feel happy from someone you don't love. Someone makes me comfortable, so I want to rely on him; while another one makes me feel lonely, so I want to embrace him. An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting. A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding. The so-called freedom is the reason to be alive. If you easily give up life, then you can never find freedom. When someone loves none, he will fall in love with anyone around him. If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune. The best for a woman who has nice figure is to turn around and leave. This kind of women will be always in memory. In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness. Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time. I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year. Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding. It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings. We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself. I know that love shall not be compared, but I still used to complaining what he is lack of. Every girl was once an angel without tears. When she meets the beloved boy, she gets the tears. And after she cries, she falls into the earth. Therefore, every boy shall be nice to his girl, coz she once gave up the whole heaven for the boy. You don't need someone to love in secret. We just stand by the river and feel sad when seeing the shadow in the water and thought that we are falling love with someone. It's not us to choose the opportunity, but it's opportunity that decides us. When the opportunity comes, all we can do is to take this challenge. Don't say that opportunities never come. It came but you just don't willing to give up the things you own. Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men. Warmness is luxury—which is reflected by deep cold and hurt. Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person. I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side. The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities. The most special feeling of human is the blind love. That's the unique. You would never see a cat loving another cat in secret. Only few people know that life is beautiful for lacking something. The so-called turning-around is that you not only miss the sun in day time but also the stars at night. The so-called love word is that you say something that you would not believe by yourself, but you hope others would believe. Happiness is that you have food to eat, place to sleep and people to love. Happiness is when the desolated soul meets love. If the worst thing in the world is to die, then what kind of difficulty we can not overcome? When every love comes to the end, if you look back, you will find flowers and sorrows, but it's always beautiful. To keep someone around you is not love; love is to let the one you love go freely. To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart. People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy. The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist. Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man. In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident. Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching. If you love someone, you will know everything about her without asking her; if you don't love someone, you will forget everything even if she told you everything. I don't think that when people grow up, they will become more broad-minded and can accept everything. Conversely, I think it's a selecting process, knowing what's the most important and what's the least. And then be a simple man. U r so lucky, coz you can choose to love me or not, but myself only have to choose from loving you or loving you more. No matter how cruel the destiny treats one with tribulation and misfortune, it will correspondingly treat him with happiness and sweetness. Even if the happiness is short and false, it's enough to light up the whole future life. I always believe that there exists a place where reality cannot find me. There, the dream is very close. Just as I believe that there will always be someone in the crowd that you will remember forever until you die. You can recognize her immediately. I often have the same dream. In the dream, I am running and searching. They say I shall have more courage and more luck to reach that place and find that person. Maybe I have to take a risk, coz maybe I will die in the way of searching. So dare you to go? There is someplace that you once go and would not like to leave and some one that you would only meet once in your whole life. In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself for someone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Just ask for meeting you in my most beautiful years. Love you, think of you, love you secretly, eagerly love you, wait, feel disappointed, try hard, lose, and feel sad, go apart, and recall. All of these are for sake of you. And I will never regret for it. If not for you, I must be shivering in the despair and fear, groaning painfully. But for you, every day I will dream the most beautiful apart. Because you use your whole life to love me, and I feel free. My life seems to leave me like the sand flowing. I can hear that, but I can still smile only as long as I see you sleeping by my side. The most fearful thing in the life is the darkness deep in your heart. But soul told us that you shall have courage as long as the heartbeats. The most easily broken thing in the world is the man's wineglass, politician's promise, girls' dream, steel wire-like love, the virtuous ; of modern society and the holy heart. Freedom is not letting you do whatever you wanna but teaching you not to do the things you don't wanna do. I thought that the breath could be changed into the clouds in fine days. However, it turns into rain drops in my eyelash. In such a cold winter evening, love is luxury, making couples more happy and the single lonelier. Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things you can’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory. I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things. Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings. December 12 真的只有一个话题? 在去餐厅的路上,男同事就提醒我们说,“If there is anything in other languages, don't worry about that, that must be their 'forever topic'.”
抵达餐厅,的确是家不错的餐厅,灯光迷离,很有情调的地方。对方人马已经在等了,帅哥美女,很是养眼,大家彬彬有礼的互相介绍、落座、点餐,气氛撩人。
饭局开始,觥筹交错,举杯畅饮,甚是欢愉。可好景不长,话题终于......
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